"But the children..."
Children who grow up in a household with intimate partner violence are at increased risk of:
- Anxiety disorders and depression
- Problems with emotional regulation
- A distorted image of what a relationship is
- Permanent hypervigilance
Children don't need two parents living together. They need parents who are emotionally available and an environment where they can feel safe.
Practical steps
→ See the safety plan for the detailed action plan.
Filing a report
- Do it anyway, even if the experience is discouraging: it creates an official file
- Ask for a specialized point of contact
- If you're not believed: note the name and badge number, ask about the complaints procedure
Helpline 1712: 📞 1712 — free, anonymous — 1712.be
Shelter for men: referral via 1712.
Peer support groups
Keertij vzw guides a peer support group for male victims of (ex-)partner violence in Ghent.
- Location: Ghent
- More info and dates: vzwzijn.be/project-mannenlotgenotengroep
- Contact: ruth@keertij.be — keertij.be